
Jeff Crume is a Certified Information Systems Security Professional (CISSP), an IBM Distinguished Engineer, and Master Inventor with more than 40 years’ experience in software design, IT security, and cybersecurity leadership. At IBM, he serves as Executive Security Architect, guiding complex security strategies for organizations around the world. Jeff has a PhD in Cybersecurity and serves as an Adjunct Professor at NC State University. Jeff’s YouTube videos have been viewed more than 12 million times and he is the author of a book entitled "Inside Internet Security: What Hackers Don't Want You To Know” as well as a contributing author to the "Information Security Management Handbook.” He is a member of the inaugural class of the NC State University Computer Science Alumni Hall of Fame and serves on the editorial board for the “Information and Computer Security” research journal.As a divorced father, Jeff brings valuable real-world perspective to NFJ’s Advisory Council. His professional background in information protection and systems security supports NFJ’s commitment to using technology responsibly in service of families and children in the legal system. Jeff’s insights are especially relevant as NFJ explores secure and ethical uses of digital tools to improve transparency, privacy, and access to justice in family law.
His contributions help inform how data and technology can support processes that respect the rights of parents and ensure children are protected from harm.By integrating deep technical knowledge with a personal understanding of family dynamics, Jeff provides critical input that helps NFJ shape forward-thinking, secure, and reliable systems for families navigating separation and custody challenges.

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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
Helping families understand their rights, options, and next steps
We support families navigating high-conflict custody, family court, and legal system abuse. Our services include education, advocacy, professional training, and support for families facing issues like violations of rights, coercive control, domestic violence, and parental alienation. We also file amicus briefs in landmark cases affecting parental rights.
No, we are not a law firm and do not provide legal representation or advice. However, we offer tools, education, document review, and strategic support to empower families and pro se litigants. We can also help you find trauma-informed legal professionals in your area.
Yes. We specialize in supporting pro se (self-represented) parents with tools and reasources to help you advocate for yourself in court. We also provide referrals to vetted professionals.
Absolutely. We recognize the difference between true “high conflict” and post-separation abuse. We help parents identify patterns of coercive control, gather documentation, and protect their children while advocating for safety in court.
We support 50/50 shared parenting as the default in the absence of abuse, supported by child development research and constitutional equal protection. We also advocate for safe exceptions when domestic violence, abuse, or coercive control is present.
An amicus brief (friend of the court brief) is a legal document we submit to offer expertise or insight in cases with broad impact. We use them to advocate for parental rights, equal custody, and protections for children in courts across the U.S.
Yes. We assist military-connected families by ensuring custody orders respect deployment obligations, federal protections like the SCRA and UDPCVA, and parent-child bonding despite service duties.
Yes. We review CPS reports, GAL conduct, parenting coordinator conduct, custody evaluations, and risk assessments for ethical violations. We also provide documentation support and can help elevate concerns when due process is denied.
You can support our mission by volunteering, donating, or joining our parent-to-parent mentorship program. We also welcome professionals who want to advocate for reform or provide trauma-informed services.
Use our contact form or email us directly at [email protected]. Please provide a short summary of your situation and what kind of support you’re seeking. A team member will follow up within 3–5 business days.
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